Job/Relationship Hunting? Be Mischievious…Pt. 2
Now, to be mischievous in dating and relating…
Again, a reminder that what we’re doing here is tricking ourself into ACTING outside the box. That’s where the amazing results lie. It strips you from your boxed-in ways and allows your Higher Self to express and attract.
Being intentionally mischievious with yourself simply has you suprised at YOU. It can take the form of wearing a dress to an event that you wouldn’t normally, maybe even running errands -or changing your make up (go get it done at a counter & buy the lipstick). It can also be handing your card to someone you’re chatting with (if you never have), or better yet – asking him out! Personally, I felt so liberated (and a little ‘out of control’ aka my ‘comfy zone’ - the clue that you’re on to something) when I asked Larry, my husband, out for the following night after meeting & talking with him. I had never asked a guy out! It worked.
In dating and relating, this can also be standing in your Truth when you normally don’t. For instance, your boyfriend typically waits until the last minute to make plans, or assumes you’ll be hanging out all weekend watching games and doing what he wants. It’s been chipping away at your satisfaction in the relationship, and really bothering you.
Do what would have you feeling mischievous. I’m a big fan of speaking the truth with successful delivery (read: no nagging, pouting or any other victim-like approach, but calmly and assuredly). Many women struggle with this, so chances are if you just nip it in the bud and communicate your need directly you’ll be feeling very mischievous! What else will have you feeling like you’re game is back on, and on fire? Take a look at other areas where you might be feeling bored or held back: clear physical clutter, style your hair differently, do that 3 day cleanse you’ve had on your list.
Keep surprising yourself- mischieviously.
From my savvy heart to yours~
Leslie
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