Positivity Pays DIVIDEND$
Hey Savvy Woman,
There’s so much coming out these days on Mind Set, isn’t there? You’ve probably read or seen The Secret, or at least heard of the Law of Attraction. Essentially, one large contributing factor of this law, and what brings success to the application of it, is a Positive Mind Set. One’s thoughts, beliefs and feelings comprise your ‘frequency’ = how you’re vibrating. Is it Positive?
Positive thoughts equals positive feelings = your vibration increases. And, per this Law, Like attracts Like.
Experiencing the powerful effects of positive mind set through my life, and, especially as I got hold of Law Of Attraction and experienced on amazing levels how it truly works, Positivity is one of the tenants of Being Love Savvy.
It’s not rocket science to observe how the impact of holding a positive attitude with others impacts your interactions and experience, versus the opposite, right? We’ve all been there. You’re with a negative-minded friend, and despite the delicious food you shared, or even the good movie you saw - you leave her and notice yourself feeling e-x-h-a-u-s-t-e-d. Otherwise known as toxicity, this negative muck has you feeling like you’re sinking in quicksand.
On the flip side, think about how you feel when you spend time, or even rub elbows, with a positive person. It’s intoxicating. It’s uplifting. Perhaps if you went in to the exchange a little tired, a little agitated, you notice that you leave it feeling energized.
This translates most directly into dating and relationships, my savvy friends, as you may well know. How often have you felt disinterested in someone because he or she just seemed….well, negative? A downer. Not so much, huh?
Again, not rocket-science. But, I’ll tell you, Positivity shows up in many ways, some of which are not necessarily all verbally given. Here’s a short list of a few:
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A smile and eye contact
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Supportive, encouraging words
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Openness - approachability, even with body language (no crossing of arms, turning of back)
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Interest - Curiosity in the other person
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Avoidance of gossip or caddy comments
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Laughing, humor (if used in an uplifting way)
Now, if you’re in relationship - how much of this are you doing with your S.O.?? Take inventory, and make sure that your comfort levels haven’t seduced you into the lower-self behaviors of negativity.
Make sure to put yourself in a positive circle of influence. Because it rubs off. And with those in your life (certain family members, colleagues, long-term friends) that aren’t so positive, protect your energy and mind-set with structures that help reduce toxic residue: limit conversations, schedule interactions for a low-stress, low-impact time, and be the bigger person by not jumping in to agree with negative thinking or attitude.
Then, notice the dividends that Positivity pays. They’re priceless, actually.
From my savvy heart to yours,
Leslie
The Savvy Woman’s Love Coach
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