The Dread of Being Single at the Holidays
Monday, December 21st, 2009Dear Savvy Woman,
Recently, I sent a special offer to my list where I wrote about a particular Holiday Relationship Blues experience of my own that marked a turning point for me to doing love & dating differently. (Read my story & see my special invitation for a Love Life Breakthrough Day with me, HERE).
Many women wrote to me, letting me know how much they appreciated my story. It seemed to really hit a nerve as some are struggeling this holiday season with their single ‘status’.
If this is you too, I totally understand. Whether I was absolutely without a date in sight, or I was dating ‘John’ AND realizing that ‘it’ (us) wasn’t seemingly solid enough to justify ANOTHER family introduction over eggnog – the holidays always underscored the fact that I wasn’t living in true love and experiencing the healthy relationship that I so deeply longed for.
It was only after I took the very steps that I teach my private clients and women who participate in my programs (I’ve designed a 7 step system based on all that I’ve studied, learned and put to practice in my own & other women’s dating lives) that everything changed. Dating and relating became way more easy and fun , and I relaxed into so much more confidence and enjoyment with the whole process – being single – and with my entire life! Quickly, I met my honey and now husband.
If you’re dreading being single at the holidays this season, I hope you find solace in two things: 1) you won’t be feeling this way forever (especially if you take new actions), and 2) there is a solution to jump-starting your love life and feeling the polar opposite of dread with your single status. I’m here to help you do just that. Do you need a ‘make-over’ in your love life? Find out more HERE.
Here’s to finding true love in 2010!
Leslie
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