Posts Tagged ‘mind-set’

Protecting Your Mind-set

Friday, December 19th, 2008

Dear Savvy Woman,

This is always something that is “up” for me, and it’s in the middle of my work with clients.  It’s responsible for the results that we receive in our lives.  Our minds.  Our thinking.  What we allow in.  The nutrients that we feed it.

You’ve seen me write a lot about mind-set, and my clients experience my focus on it in our work together.  I recently re-read some old journals from years back, and low and behold - as I worked on shifting out of corporate and ending a toxic relationship with a boyfriend, along with attracting more opportunity into my life - what was changing within me was my mind-set.  What makes all the difference with this is sustainability.  Protecting your focus, your intentions, your vision and your thinking.

Ways to do this:

1. Surround yourself with like-minded people, and decrease time with the rest.

2. Keep your environment positive, including what you listen to (audios instead of random radio) and what you read.

3. Take time to connect to your vision - your desires - your dreams - EVERYDAY (see a prior blog post on Mind Movies).

4. Do whatever it takes to BELIEVE. You must have belief.  Fear and doubt are everywhere, and they destroy the thinking and mind-set that’s required to live the life of your dreams.

From my savvy heart to yours,

Leslie

The Savvy Woman’s Love Coach

www.BeLoveSavvy.com

Mind-sets for Spiritual Success - Love, Career, Life

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Dear Savvy Woman,

1) Oneness - You are already one with the infinite prosperity and infinite supply of the Universe. Ie. think about the ocean - infinite prosperity, supply. Take a cup of water from the ocean, and travel 100 miles. That cup of ocean water is still part of that greater source - the ocean water of which it was taken from. They are the same - One.

Practice a Oneness Mindset

Ex: ‘I am willing to discover my already Oneness with…..’

2) Non-attachment, Non-judgement: A vibration of allowing things into your life. You’re releasing limitation and boundaries, taking away the ’shoulds’ here of how you are attached to how things show up and look in your life.

Ex: the only way I will meet ‘him’ is by successful online dating or being at the right ‘place’

Mantra: There is only one source - an infinite channel

3) Gratitude: One of the most powerful vibrations - it is the vibration of Having. The Universe will begin to give you back more Havingness. Where your attention goes is where your energy flows. Express Gratitude, you can’t do this enough.

4) Cultivate Your Desire to Create or to Give: When we’re caught up in scarcity, we’re focused on GETTING rather than GIVING. This is coming from lack - and as like attracts like - lack attracts more of the same. Giving from a place of gratitude and abundance.

“The more I spend, the more I receive” - Joe Vitale

5) Active Receptivity: The mindset that guides your actions towards prosperity. You must act on these opportunities that the Universe sends you. Inspired action, rather than of the action of willful control or fear.

Ex: “I am open and receptive to clear guidance from the Universe.”

“I intend to take inspired action to show the Universe that I am open, expanded and committed to my greatest JOY.”

To your success,

From my savvy heart to yours ~

Leslie

The Savvy Woman’s Love Coach

www.BeLoveSavvy.com

Letting Go

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Dear Savvy Friend,

It’s Election Day…

I don’t ‘do politics’ nor formalized religion, in terms of engaging in public (or much personal) debate and attempting to persuade or squash other opinion.    This doesn’t mean that I’m not active nor have an opinion or personal point of view!  I just don’t find the process of such debate that joyous , electrifying or  satisfying for me, personally.

I’m happy to have just completed my vote and it feels good to be doing my part.  Without going into this any deeper, all I will say is THANK G*D WE WILL BE SEEING SOME CHANGE as a country, and globally.

Speaking of change, I want to share something with you that I came across last night reviewing one of my notebooks.  I recently heard David Neagle speak at the retreat I attended given by Fabienne Fredrickson on “Inner Game of Abundance”.   I’m on David’s list so I receive his messages through his Ezine and audio’s,  and I find him , as many do,  so incredibly clear as a communicator of the Universal  laws and principles that have existed for thousands and thousands of years.  He makes things SO clear, SO simple.  But you can’t be fooled by the simplicity.  Mastering these teachings takes tremendous focus, willpower and study, to say the least. I hope to continue to improve the application of these in my life…

So, I’m reviewing my notes from David’s presentation at the retreat,  and I came across this statement & quote that is SO the Truth.  So the Truth!

“The minute you let go of the thing you’re not willing to let go of, the Universe responds IMMEDIATELY.”

I’ll share with you a few  of my own examples of this Truth:

-          As soon as I let go of a FEAR of ‘needing’ a (toxic)  corporate job to keep me afloat in life – and literally jumped out of a plane that weekend to symbolize it – I am let go (a company off) the following day.  (And I needed the Universal ‘push’.  Both of them!)

 

-          As soon as I let go of sabotaging behavior & certain patterns with men and begin to listen to my Higher Self, I meet my now husband , Larry (within weeks).

 

-          As soon as I let go of the fear of ‘what other people think of me’(a work in progress, but I’m much less white-knuckled about it now) , and let my voice be heard and my Higher Self gets greater visibility, I receive signs – opportunities – acknowledgement (the kind that keeps me inspired to continue stepping out as my Higher Self, not the kind that feeds my need , based on the fear, to continue to play small).

 

Here is to changes of the highest order!

From my savvy heart, to yours ~

Leslie

The Savvy Woman’s Love Coach

www.BeLoveSavvy.com